To learn to withstand our own feelings is the most powerful act of defiance against those that have committed atrocities. All abusers are desperate …
healing
Out From Hiding
To say the last, I dunno, 6 years, have been transformative would be an understatement. I really do feel like a different person. And not just when I …
The End of Narcissism
The theme of the collective right now is destructing narcissism. I suppose you could say “deconstructing” narcissism, but the funny bit about that …
Why I’m So Damn Tired
I’m tired, Y'all. I’m tired of seeing and hearing women embrace the patriarchy, and shit on and minimize other women. I’m tired of witnessing …
Why You Don’t Need To Forgive Just Yet
There are some things I'm not ready to forgive. And because of that, I've found myself guilty of a lot of things: Of being dismissive and …
What I Learned From Reconciling With My Dad
I reconciled with my dad this past summer. It had been about 6 years since we last spoke or saw each other. We've had a tumultuous relationship over …
[Read more...] about What I Learned From Reconciling With My Dad