In the same swift design that I can erratically make a decision that counters my true desires, I can use the same energy to propel me towards a choice …
relationships
A story about recovering from relationship trauma
Yesterday I ran into 2 of my ex-boyfriends. One online and one in real life. The first one was via an email alert that said dude wanted to connect …
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Clarity on Freethinking
There's something revolutionary I've learned over the past couple years, and that is that an emotional reaction is not freethinking. It's insanely …
Cultivating One Sided Kindness: It’s Possible
I believe…in our ability to be kind even when someone isn’t kind to us. Said another way: I believe we can cultivate one-sided kindness. I …
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Why Your Parents Are Jerks and That’s OK
About 10 years ago I got arrested for being drunk in public. Long story short, I was in a really bad state. I was severely depressed, drinking …
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Why I Lost My Virginity to a Jerk
I really loathe the phrase, “losing my virginity.” It's not a sock or a set of car keys for crying out loud. But then I named this article that …