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thoughts on emotional freedom - must love crows
Apr
09
What does emotional freedom look like to you? For me, it’s the dream of feeling oh-well-ish about how other people choose to act. It’s, “Hey dude, It’s your choice to show your pain, in the way you feel you need to show it.” It’s walking away...
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Thoughts On Our Deficiencies - must love crows
Apr
06
Lucky = Working with Intention and Gratitude. Too Sensitive = An innate Gift. At Least = Denial of Your Truth. Should Have = Lesson for next time. Summary: the next time you start ripping the seams on all that you aren’t, remember that perspective is everything. You are...
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after the sirens - mental health self care - must love crows
Apr
03
In the past, I assumed that to be a paramedic was to be superhuman. But as I’ve become more aware of the power of trauma on the human psyche, I know that isn’t the case. It’s just not possible to remain unaffected by trauma. And a new documentary, After The...
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The Issue With Expectations And A Poem - must love crows
Apr
03
We have deeply ingrained expectations of who someone should be in relation to who we are, and so often we are disappointed. It can feel like a devout betrayal when someone doesn’t respond the way we want or believe we need them to. But in bringing expectations to our...
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Visiting Your Discomfort - must love crows
Apr
01
It is in the prolonged moments of discomfort and vulnerability that we connect with a depth of ourselves we wouldn’t otherwise experience. The shores of pain, anguish and frustration over not being able to fix how we feel on command are places our soul wants and needs us to...
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What you think you need vs what you really need - must love crows
Mar
18
It snowed on Vancouver Island a couple of weekends ago. An east coaster would likely scoff at what accumulated, but throw any amount of the white stuff on the roads here on the west coast, and shit hit’s the fan pretty quickly. None of us are used to driving in it, and...
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Why Trying To Finish My Degree Was Bad For My Mental Health - Must Love Crows
Mar
18
My ego is not cool with me admitting this, but it’s happening anyway: I did not finish my degree. I used to be so ashamed of that fact. So much so that I hid it and even lied about it for years. I thought the fact that I didn’t complete my degree meant I was a...
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my weekend wellness list - must love crows
Mar
17
It’s Saturday morning and I want to get shit done. Most weeks I’m in hyper-productive mode. And the weekends are wonderful when they show their faces, but I need constant reminding to dial it back when they do. Otherwise, I end up overdoing it and am all out of sorts...
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Let's Move Forward Now - Must Love Crows
Feb
25
We must always move forward. Even though I know this, I revisit the past a lot. Driven by the desire to connect, I warp into the person I used to be. She feels like a better fit for certain conversations and vibes. Half the time I don’t even realize I’m being her...
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