Must Love Crows
The business of being kind to yourself when you feel terrible - must love crows
May
01
When you feel crappy, you might instantly get worried and wonder, “Is this terrible feeling mine to own? Is it here to stay, forever?” I used to go that way about any and every feeling that was tough to sit with. Insta-crap (you know what I’m talking about, the...
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Why i'm so damn tired - must love crows
Apr
30
I’m tired, Y’all. I’m tired of seeing and hearing women embrace the patriarchy, and shit on and minimize other women. I’m tired of witnessing women refuse to do the work required to see the truth below their lack of empathy: that they don’t like or trust themselves. If...
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Lessons From This Week Non-Universal Truths and Shoulding must love crows
Apr
28
This week I learned that my idea of the right thing to do isn’t universal. There are variances and that fact alone can be frustrating as hell. Also, karma is the universal truth. #justsaying Also, should-ing is totally useless. If you are capable of muttering the words...
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dressing room deficiencies - must love crows
Apr
25
More often than not, I eat to heal my body and mind. Though as the “more often” suggests, it’s not always the case. I have a very human inclination to want to look good. Diagnosed with anorexia in my late teens, I am mindful, if not a bit concerned at times, of...
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Cultivating One Sided Kindness - It's Possible - must love crows
Apr
24
I believe…in our ability to be kind even when someone isn’t kind to us. Said another way: I believe we can cultivate one-sided kindness. I didn’t always believe this. I used to be trigger happy when it came to showing people what was up when I sensed a millimeter of fuckery being...
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Why Sleeping In Separate Beds Saved My Marriage - Must Love Crows
Apr
19
If you’d told me a few years ago that I wouldn’t be sleeping in the same bed as my husband anymore, I’d have panicked and assumed my marriage had fallen apart. But today I celebrate it because I know it saved our marriage. My hubby and I shared a bed for years...
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floods of change - must love crows
Apr
18
You hope and wish for it every day of your life, But when the floods of change finally come All the newness scares you: “Could it be!?” “Is this really happening!?” “Is this for real!?” “What if it stops?” Such a peculiar feeling,...
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lessons from 38 must love crows
Apr
14
We are the sum of our experiences, and our feelings are the culmination of the experiences we’ve had. Therefore, our feelings are not our fault. Processing your feelings starts with accepting their existence, ie, giving up the fight to deny them. “Hi, Fear. I see you....
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in defense of taking things personally - must love crows
Apr
09
I’ve had two health care professionals tell me I should read The Four Agreements over the past few years. Must have been something about what I shared with them that had them thinking the book would help me. When someone tells me I should read a self-help book, it kinda...
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